Men

The Woman in Your Life: Sexual Issues

Definition

Sexual dysfunction is broadly defined as the inability to fully enjoy sexual intercourse. Specifically, sexual dysfunctions are disorders that interfere with a full sexual response cycle. These disorders make it difficult for a person to enjoy or to have sexual intercourse. While sexual dysfunction rarely threatens physical health, it can take a heavy psychological toll, bringing on depression, anxiety, and debilitating feelings of inadequacy. --The Free Dictionary

Sexual dysfunction refers to persistent physical issues, psychological problems, or both that prevent someone from engaging in sexual activities. It can affect any phase of the sexual response cycle, from arousal to orgasm, and can involve various potential causes.Sexual activity can affect a person’s social health as well as their mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Sexual dysfunction can lower a person’s quality of life and self-esteem, and harm their relationships with sexual partners. --Medical News Today

Some Causes

A woman may experience sexual problems if she:

-During Sex: Feels anxiety, pain, vaginal or involuntary muscle contraction (before or during)
-slacks or loses sexual desire
-has difficulty achieving orgasm
has inadequate lubrication

Sexual Dysfunction

sexual dysfunction can occur as a result of trauma (rape or incest), feelings of guilt, a poor view of self, chronic fatigue, depression, beliefs and marital problems.

Practical Realities: Differences Between Men & Women

Stimulation:
Men are largely stimulated visually, often having less regard for the person in the "stimulating" body.
Women are concerned with romance, character, and personality, simultaneously yielding both physically and emotionally.

Response:
Men typically can reach "go time" much more quickly, even void of connection, intimacy, connection or tender moments.
This "Wham Bam" activity can lead to a woman feeling disrespected, undervalued and cheapened, which can lead to her feeling like a prostitute being used.